There is certainly no shortage of bargirls in Pattaya. The beer bars and gogo bars are splitting at the seams with them every single night of the week! Although bargirls can be found in the beer bars throughout the city all day every day, you’ll find that the more attractive ones will show up in the evening making Pattaya nightlife even better.
Pattaya is a very popular red light tourist destination and many women of all ages flock to the sin city from all over the country to make a LOT more money than they would be able to back in their home village. Many are able to support their entire family back home thus making Pattaya a very attractive option for them.
To learn the ins and out of how things work in beer bars and gogo bars in Pattaya you can check out Pattaya GoGo Bar and Beer Bar Basics.
Bargirls are basically girls that work in certain bars in Thailand and entertain customers as pay for play girls. Often these bars will have short time rooms right on the premises and if not there is almost always a short time hotel nearby that can be rented by the hour. You can also opt to take her back to your hotel.
Bargirls are not to be confused with most of the girls that live in the rest of the country. They are the girls that work in the bars and not the ones you might see working in a bank or as a real estate agent or in a shopping mall in Pattaya etc… Many women in Thailand and even in Pattaya do have high moral values and would not even consider working as a bargirl.
There are also many “freelance” girls that frequent Beach Road after sunset that do not work in a bar and many that seek pay for play hookups from online dating websites such as Thaifriendly.
Thaifriendly is a favorite because it is free to create a profile and contact other members for both men and women where most other dating websites in Thailand have a monthly membership fee. Therefore many men that are looking to hook up are on there as well.
Pattaya is a very busy place. And who’s to say what that hot woman you saw working at a bank does during her evenings away from her normal job…
Bargirls are found more frequently in tourist areas such as Phuket, the entertainment districts in Bangkok, Hua Hin, Chiang Mai and especially all over Pattaya but basically can be found in smaller quantities throughout the country.
In all actuality, most women in Thailand have very high moral values and would not even consider being a bargirl, nor would their families accept it. But some become bargirls because they are actually pressured to by their family or Thai boyfriend/husband to provide a good income.
Most Thai women are very accommodating by nature so a lot of western men actually end up in a serious relationship and get married to a bargirl. Some turn out to be a successful marriage, but these are rare. There are many very attractive bargirls, and often times these are the only women that the visiting men come into contact with in the country.
Getting Involved With A Bargirl
Before you find yourself getting involved with a bargirl, you need to ask yourself if you would get involved with someone that does this for a living in your home country.
Most people would surely answer no. This business is basically the same in Thailand as it is everywhere else in the world… The only difference is that in Thailand it’s much more in the public view. A bargirl’s number one job is to extract as much money as they can from foreign men…keep that in mind.
Most of the bargirls in Pattaya have moved there from other parts of the country and many are fully supporting their family back home. Some are actually pressured to work there by their family as their family’s only source of income as they can make by far a LOT more money than they would be able to anywhere else.
Some are single mothers or have a Thai boyfriend or husband that they are supporting. Many go there hoping to meet a foreign husband or boyfriend that will support them and almost all of them will want support for their entire family back home too so something to keep in mind if you ever meet a sweet Pattaya bargirl and begin to find yourself falling in love…
Some of them go there hoping to meet their future foreign husband as it is a very busy tourist destination and they have a better chance of meeting someone than wherever it is that they are from. Although most are in it just for the money.
Beware… Some Bargirls Are Sharks!
There are also some that are complete sharks and have a foreign boyfriend or “sponsor” that does not live in Thailand and sends them money every month on the premise that they are their girlfriend, fiancée or wife and will remain faithful and not work in a bar anymore. Kind of like a retainer fee.
Some even have multiple unsuspecting sponsors. I have heard of up to 20 sponsors sending money to the same girl every month. Often the sponsor(s) is sending an allowance every month, the entire time thinking that their trusted loved one is being faithful and not working in a bar anymore, but unwilling to give up the income and the lifestyle, she still is.
The bars that they work in will often arrange time off when their gullible foreign sponsor(s) or boyfriend(s) is in for a holiday.… don’t be one of those guys…
Pattaya is not the place to look for a “keeper” or get into a relationship with a Thai girl. Be warned.. most are in it purely for the money and only for the money and many are very good at what they do. Their prime directive is to squeeze as much money out of foreign tourists as they possibly can.
If you want to meet “nice” girls outside of travelling the country, one method is online dating websites such as ThaiCupid or Thaifriendly. ThaiCupid is a paid site and most of the girls on there are serious about finding a real partner and not just someone to fleece.
Thaifriendly has a lot of pay for play girls mainly because it is free to use for both men and women and they can arrange “hookups” without having to work in a bar or stand around on Sukhimvit Soi 4 in Bangkok or Beach Road in Pattaya.
If you are looking on a dating website for a “normal” girl then it is best to avoid any that live anywhere within commuting distance of Pattaya. There are many profiles on Thai dating sites from all over the country so skipping over these ones should not be a problem. Reasonable caution is also required online.